Is this it?

We traveled to New York last month for James's 20 month follow up with Dr. Li. I really have no new blood work results to report, because, on paper, his testing is perfect. His improvements, even from last July, when he had already made a huge number of gains, are incredible. With that in mind, my first query to Dr. Li was:

"Is this it?"

James's quality of life has improved so significantly since beginning treatment, combined with the difficulty of tapering his Allegra down further, made me think that perhaps we had reached the end point of his treatment - and I was ok with that.

Dr. Li felt he still could go farther.

Her first recommendation was to have him have a food challenge, still on Allegra, and at most half the normal dose for a food challenge, eating that amount regularly. One of the benefits of seeing Dr. Li each day was that I could relay this to James's local allergist and have a response while still in daily contact with Dr. Li. Many times I have wished I could get them both in the same room to hash things out - this was the next best thing.

James's local allergist did not outright say no, but definitely expressed concerns. His first concern was that if James was still taking Allegra, minor symptoms might be suppressed and any reaction might be more serious before noticed. To combat this, the allergist said we would have to admit James to the hospital for the challenge and have an IV put in.

The allergist's second concern was with EoE. I know this is a controversial subject. I am reporting his concerns, not adding commentary because I think the research is still out. He felt that OIT had an increased risk of EoE and not doing a full challenge was too similar to OIT. Challenging when we weren't sure that James's immune system was fully healed could put him at a higher risk.

So, ultimately, the ball was in my court. James's allergist was willing, but ... Dr. Li recommended it.

I asked Dr. Li if it was even possible for James to develop EoE; his blood work shows 0% eosinophils in his blood. She said that yes, he could. Eosinophils can be in tissue and not blood.

I will be honest, EoE terrifies me. James has had digestive problems in the past (and to some extent, continuing) and I don't want to tip the scales. It seems the ultimate jumping out of the frying pan into
the fire.

And so, we decided to wait.

Inadvertently, we seem to have started James's Allegra taper again. Last Tues, the pills got stuck in his throat and he threw them up. This Tues, he forgot to take them. Unless I hear otherwise, I'm going to drop his Tuesday dose since he's gone two weeks without it with seemingly little effects. October will be a year since we began the taper. My goal now is to be done by next October!

Back to Camp

I had really hoped to skip camp this year. I had every reason to believe that not only would it not be necessary, but we could even stretch our visits out to a year, avoiding the expensive summer season.

Life laughs.

In addition to his atopies, James has Tourette Syndrome. It was, comparatively,  minor by the time we saw Dr. Li and had been for some months.

Since James has been reducing his medications (both Allegra and melatonin), his tics have increased exponentially. At 10 years old, his tics were bad enough that he asked to be medicated. He tried but the side effects to the medication were intolerable. His tics have increased to that point, perhaps beyond.

Dr. Li asked about increasing both Allegra and melatonin. I explained my hesitation at increasing either, but particularly Allegra. We will not e able to do any food challenges if we can't remove him from Allegra. She concurred and we met in the middle. His Allegra will remain the same, his melatonin will be increased. She is making a custom herbal formula for him. Hopefully, he will see some improvement. She asked him to try acupuncture locally, which I am in the process of arranging.

And, we are going back to camp.

Last year, I was in the position of advocated for camp and Darren and James were more reluctant. This year, they are the enthusiastic ones and I am ... worn. Darren and I spent a day re-arranging travel plans. We have a family trip scheduled, also Back East, for the week following camp. Planes needed to be changed, hotels booked, logistics figured out. But, it is done.

What I'm doing differently this year:

1. A full kitchen, not a microwave, mini-fridge, cook in the bathroom combo. I couldn't face that again this year.

2. Gulp. A red eye flight. We couldn't find anything else (using airline points). Anyone want to wager that this will be my 'never again' point next year?

3. Not make any plans of tourist things to do. What we see is fine, but, I found last year, James needs rest after acupuncture. Often, by the time he had the energy to go out and see, it was night. Not that there isn't a lot to see at night!

Summary of Our In Person Appointment with Dr. Li

We returned to New York to see Dr. Li last week. Dr. Li and I had already discussed James's one year blood results during a phone consult. There is nothing like a face-to-face appointment though, so I was truly looking forward to seeing her.

Honestly, I had one hope of the appointment (being able to re-introduce legumes, which James's allergist felt were an intolerance, not an allergy) and James had another (reducing the dreaded cream). Dr. Li wisely followed James's lead and I will have to wait.

She started by checking his skin ("beautiful") and acupuncture. Upon returning, she took history and we discussed food challenges.

• She clarified that, although Kaiser records >0.35 as an allergy, she considers anything over 0.01 possibly still allergic. I am sure James's history of having severe reactions with low IgEs plays into this (in other words, this is specific to him and not a general statement of Dr. Li's thoughts).
• James asked to reduce to doing cream one time a day. She said this was fine, but that he should step down (one day a week), particularly as he is still stepping down from his Allegra.
• She asked James what food he would like to challenge first. He replied that he wanted wheat back, but that he thought he could pass soy. She said that when we were ready (off of Allegra, SPT from allergist), he could start with wheat.
• However, for each challenge he does, she wants to challenge only 1/5th of the amount that is usually used in the challenge. Then, she wants us to control how much returns into his diet, small amounts one day a week at first, stepping up a day a week, and then portion size. Her concern is he will feel sick from adding foods he has been avoiding into his diet and wants him to go slowly. He does tend towards GI problems. I will be discussing the smaller challenge with James's allergist.
• Dr. Li was most excited that James (on his own) had turned up the water heater and had not had hives. He used to have heat intolerance. In her words, "That shows true tolerance."

The biggest benefit of being in person was that Dr. Li was able to talk to James and let him guide the appointment. I always ask before any phone consult if he has anything he would like to add or ask, but the answer is always no. Being in person, her questions could be addressed directly to him. Dr. Li gives him flexibility, respect, and some control and he is more motivated to do what is required.

Where's the Easy Button?

Recently, I wrote how James had an accidental ingestion of soy. James's local allergist, Dr. L, had suggested both a soy and a wheat challenge last year, just prior to our first visit to Dr. Li. She requested we wait. At this seemingly successful tolerance, Dr. Li agreed that he could proceed with the soy challenge.

Not so fast, mom!

Dr. L, rightly, had lots of questions regarding James's ingestion. And two were particularly relevant to whether the challenge should go ahead or not in this case.

1. Any delayed reactions? Although I hadn't considered it at the time, James did complain the next day of shortness of breath, similar to (in his words) "when he has an OAS reaction." Since we were walking and in NYC, I chalked it up to humidity and pollen. 

Dr. L also did not seem concerned with this, but it did put the thought in the back of my mind.

2. What form of soy did he ingest? As it was soy flour, it turns out that this is not the most allergenic form of soy. Much like baked egg or milk, soy proteins change in a baked form from that of raw soy, as one would find in soy milk or tofu, which is used for a challenge.

So, while it was a good sign he had not reacted to the flour, it was not a clear ingestion either.

But wait! there's more (stumbling blocks)

Dr. L requested that James be weaned off his Allegra - and stay hive free - before undertaking any blood work even to see if he would be ready for a challenge (see information on OFC and CU here). Dr. Li, the day before, had specifically told me not to adjust James's Allegra schedule, until he had been hive free for six months. Then, she would work with us to wean him from his Allegra.

This is one of those cases - neither doctor is wrong, both have solid reasoning for their orders behind them, and if they were both in a room, I have no doubt they would discuss it and decide the best course of action. But they aren't. So, it's up to me to play a stressful game of telephone. And it's up to me to make the final call.

After talking it out with an amazing support system, I realized that our long term goal is health and healing. Ultimately, do we want to challenge foods, successfully? Of course, but we don't want to rush and possibly set back his current gains.

And so, we wait. Soy will still be there in 6 months, when hopefully, he is even healthier and hive free without antihistamines.

TCM Camp

For a week, we have made a hotel room our home - cooking in the bathroom, bruising our shins on the platform beds, and asking housekeeping always for more coffee. A month ago, when I told Darren that Dr. Li had asked that we come to New York for a week so James could participate in her yearly TCM camp, he was bit skeptical: "A week of acupuncture and a consult, couldn't we do that here?" But, always supportive, we went, and we are all glad we did.

Here's a peek into our week:

Day 1:

We called ahead to check if Dr. Li is running on time. Our appointment was at 11:00 am, we were told to arrive at 11:30, but still waited some in the waiting room. The waiting room is not very big and your hotel, or in our case lobby, as we hadn't checked in yet, will be more comfortable.

This ended up being our consult day (when they made the appointments initially, they weren't sure what day would be the consult. I think Dr. Li wanted the consult prior to beginning treatment this week). Having his improvements summarized was gratifying - no severe reactions since beginning in October (three severe reactions in the two years prior), one minor reaction since beginning (20+ prior). Those are for food allergy reactions, not for environmental. He still has hives 5 out of 7 days (cause is suspected to be environmental by our local allergist), unknown frequency prior because they were (are really) so common I did not track them until Dr. Li asked me to. James still is not reporting them to me reliably so that number is based on his estimate.

I should have had James's IgEs taken. This is not his one year point (that will be October) so I didn't (I'm quite the rule follower). That does not always work in my advantage. It was fine, but she did want to know (me too!).

James was not able to tolerate acupressure. He's very ticklish. So, he again had two needles, one in each of his arms, but found the leg needle painful so she removed it. Dr. Li applied acupressure to his leg, observed it was "jiggly", and asked what trauma he had had in his life. For those who have experienced toddler adoption following abandonment and/or orphanage care, you will know there was trauma. I don't understand acupuncture at all, and so that she can know from his skin sensitivity that he had trauma, was a little spooky (what is the saying? We fear what we don't understand).

Day 2:

A much faster day, James had acupuncture while we spoke to Dr. Li. We were told to make no changes and emphasize the positive things, such as his ability to handle things, a healing of the heart as well as the body.

James was exhausted when we got back to the hotel. I was going stir crazy.

Day 3:

Four needles, two in each arm for 15 minutes, very efficient.

We went out afterwards, to MOMA and then to Nintendo World, probably James's favorite New York place. He was exhausted though, a frequent theme after acupuncture. To my delight, there is a Farmer's Market in front of Rockefeller Center (Wed-Fri). If, like us, you don't eat our much, and like us, your hotel only had a mini-fridge, by this point you might be getting dangerously low on fresh fruits and veggies. Honest joy for fresh produce for me and some raw cheese for James.

Temporary Iwata shrine at Nintendo World memorializing the recent passing of the President of Nintendo, Japan.

Day 4:

Dr. Li spent a long time doing acupressure before acupuncture. The difference in the amount of touch James was able to tolerate from Day 1 to today was amazing. We sit quietly, but at one point, I wanted to shout out, "I can't believe she's touching his feet!" He often says to me, "I've heard you can't tickle yourself, but I can." He's the most ticklish person I know.

All of these appointments have been tiring. James always asks to do something afterwards, but usually changes his mind. Yesterday was the only day we have followed through so far, and that was leaving the office directly. It resulted in him being overtired and crabby. He usually has a lot of energy. However, the acupuncture is supposed to be relaxing and our diet has not been as healthy as at home. It takes it's toll.

Day 5:

Another day of acupressure and acupuncture, although not quite as long as the day before. Today, Dr. Li had a young patient helper with her, who handed her the needles as she prepped James's skin. One of the real highlights of the trip has been meeting other families going through the process and even one who is in the biomarker study (so incredible to see that real and beginning!). I am not particularly gregarious in person (perhaps an understatement) but luckily I had a friend from the Midwest I met at the beginning the week who was outgoing enough for us both. And truly, I met many lovely families this week.

Dr. Li was particularly talkative today, which surprised us. Usually, when we come in, our directions are to be quiet, so that James can relax, so when she was asking us questions and conversing, we were a little hesitant at first to reply, kind of like talking out of turn in class.

After acupuncture, we met some friends for ice cream at A La Mode and we even got burgers from Bare Burger  for dinner. Two places out in one day might be a record for us. James declared the Bare Burger to be "the best he's ever had." He's had a fair number of burgers. And they were very careful, noting the allergies and reviewing their ingredients with Darren (who did the ordering and went to pick them up) despite how busy they were.

Day 6:

We were all relieved to make it to our last day. James was more antsy during acupuncture than he had been since the first day, so Dr. Li dropped his time down to 5 min., but within a minute of having the needles in, you could visibly see his body relax. I actually thought he was asleep on the table, he was lying so still.

We had a wrap-up chat. She wants his cream dosage increased ("we all have to do things we don't like") and we will be back in 6 months.

Why It Was Worth It:

1. He had no hives all week. Enough said.

2. Traveling is enormously stressful for him. Prior to this, the longest trip we've done is 10 days (before we were in NYC, we visited my mom for a week, so we've been gone 2 weeks now). He remembers loving trips when we return, but during the trip, he's generally miserable, physically and emotionally. But, this trip, he felt some 'I'm ready to go home,' as did I, but it wasn't the extreme feelings he usually experiences. No increase in tics, no emotional outbursts, no physical ramifications.

I would really like to continue acupuncture with him at home, but with all things for him, Dr. Li urged us to go slow. If he requests it, then it's okay. If not, leave it be for now.

Practical Considerations:

We stayed at a Hilton Garden Inn because of having points. In retrospect, not having a full sized refrigerator was a big deal and I would make that more of a priority in future trips. We are used to eating fresh and this limited our options to a lot of packaged foods. The Dumont is also very close to the office, does have full kitchens and larger suites - something to consider for the next time.

Minute Rice Microwaveable Cups - terrible, you are not that hungry.

Hormel pre-cooked bacon - doesn't require refrigeration, but you might as well eat salt and call it a day.

The best part of the Hilton Garden Inn Midtown/Park Ave is its location, literally around the block from Dr. Li's office. 

Bring two pairs of comfortable shoes. You will regret bringing only one.

My experience, (yours may vary) is to plan on this being a medical visit, not a tourist one. Anything you may get to do or see is bonus, but don't plan on a lot. James, as I mentioned, was often worn out, and not up for any sightseeing. In the evening, he would have more energy and want to just take walks, which was fine.